Farewell Charlie

One of the reasons behind our decision for me to retire early, was the diagnosis, in May 2017, of our dear friend, Charlie.

He was diagnosed with an inoperable brain tumour and then we later learned a 2nd one had also developed.  His cancer moved quickly, but gratefully, without pain.  And we lost our dear friend on Sunday, September 3rd.  It has been a summer of sadness for us, as we watched his wife, Jane, of 43 years, care for him, in her practical, no-nonsense way.  She is one of my closest friends; a Lemmon Sister.  We chatted and visited regularly, providing as much help and coaching from the sidelines as we could.  They managed, as they always had, as a true partnership.  She knew what he needed and was there 24-7.  A testament and beautiful example of true, life-long love.

Charlie was a quiet man; a gentle giant.  He had a quick sense of humour, and a whispery, contagious laugh.  He loved to be around his friends and family.  His career was spent on the golf course - literally!  He was a superb greenskeeper, who watched the weather channel religiously, as one of the many tools to keep those fairways in such immaculate shape.  This was the perfect job for him, as Charlie was a natural golfer.  On the occasions when I could play with him, it was a treat for me to follow along and just marvel at his easy swing.  He'd offer suggestions on how to improve my game and was very patient.  (Janie shares a different perspective! )

Charlie, me, Marisu & Doug

He was also a man of faith, having once considered becoming a priest.  But after one year at Seminary, he felt that married life was his calling.  And then he found Janie.  Together they raised three children, allowing them to grow, and supporting them and their choices in life.  They were always there for their kids.  And now their children have beautiful families and have gifted Jane & Charlie with (almost) six grandchildren!  (#6 could arrive any day now...)

Tomorrow, we say our final good-bye to Charlie.  It's hard to believe that our good friend will no longer be on this earth with us.  Fortunately, we have so many years of wonderful memories of fun times and laughter.  These will keep him close for years to come.
God Bless You, Charlie.  Rest in Peace.